In a recent Sunday school lesson with my class of teenagers, entitled “What’s Your Reputation”, we discussed the importance of a good reputation and agreed that your reputation is not what you think of yourself, but what others think of you. How do others form opinions of you? The students listed the following factors that determine how others view you: conduct, respect for others, study habits, manners, and coping with challenges.
From our discussion, it is clear that many young people know that your character is the most important factor in defining one’s reputation. We need to teach young people that a good reputation is real when it is consistent with your character. Let’s look closely at character. The character Education Network identified the following essential traits for teaching character education. These character traits are:
• Responsibility—being accountable in word and deed and having a sense of duty to fulfill tasks with reliability, dependability and commitment.
• Perseverance—pursuing worthy objectives with determination and patience while exhibiting fortitude when confronted with failure.
• Caring—showing understanding of others by treating them with kindness, compassion, generosity and a forgiving spirit.
• Self-discipline—demonstrating hard work controlling your emotions, words, actions, impulses and desires and giving your best in all situations.
• Citizenship—being law abiding and involved in service to school, community and country.
• Honesty—telling the truth, admitting wrongdoing, being trustworthy and acting with integrity.
• Courage—doing the right thing in face of difficulty and following your conscience instead of the crowd.
• Fairness—practicing justice, equity, equality and cooperating with one another. Recognizing the uniqueness and value of each individual within our diverse society.
• Respect—showing high regard for an authority, other people, self and country. Treating others as you would want to be treated. Understanding that all people have value as human beings.
• Integrity—a firm adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic values and being honest, trustworthy and incorruptible.
• Patriotism—a love for and loyalty to one’s country.
Many people have fabricated good reputations through deception—they have presented one form to the public and another in private. Young people need to know that eventually deception will ultimately be revealed. We are constantly seeing fallouts from deception in recent headlines regarding celebrities, politicians, athletes, evangelists, entertainers and others who have been embarrassed and disgraced because their private lives were inconsistent with their public images.
A good reputation (character) is more important than riches. Your reputation/character will weather the storms of life through a legacy that will live beyond you. We concluded our lesson by reflecting on the life of Deacon Israel Brooks, Jr., South Carolina’s first African American trooper and former United States Marshal who epitomized the meaning of a good reputation with good character.
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